A. Every once in awhile I am asked by a couple for samples of my work. Since I do write custom ceremonies based upon each individual couple, it is hard to showcase what all of my ceremonies "sound" like. Each couple has different themes and aspects of their relationship that they wish for me to base their celebrations on. Some ask for funny ceremonies, others religious and spiritual, and others that ask for me to present contemporary, non-religious celebrations. What I would write for you and your fiancee will be different from what I've written for another couple simply based on the fact that I base all of my writings on each couple, their experiences and beliefs and values. If you would like to be able to speak with couples, either by email or by phone, of those I've served that have okayed me to use their contact info as my references I'd be happy to forward that off to you. I feel this would best serve you and your interest in my presentation, how I incorporated different ideas given to me by my couples and my writing skills.
Q. Do you have any spiritual beliefs that could interfer with my wedding, regardless of what type of ceremony my fiancee and I choose?
A. I believe that “every person has the natural right (and the responsibility) to peacefully determine what is right”. I adhere to religious freedom of all people of all beliefs, whether that is through nature, traditional western or eastern practices or of no belief in a Higher Power. It is important to me that I keep this spiritual reference and carry this out through my service to those in my community and the couples I serve.
Q. What areas do you travel to?
A. I currently perform weddings in Skagit, Snohomish, Island, King and Whatcom counties. Please refer to the "Event Rates" section of my website for further travel information. You may also contact me directly with your venue information for a specific quote.
Q. What type of payment to you accept?
A. I accept payment via PayPal (there is a fee of 4.9%, plus 30 cent charge that PayPal charges, which is to be covered by the paying party), personal check, money order/cashier's check, and cash. Any balance will be due prior to the ceremony or rehearsal and is to be presented to me. All couples have the option of paying any balance for my services prior to their celebration.
Q. What do your services include?
A. My services include:
* an initial consultation with myself and the couple;
* the creation of your ceremony, with the incorporation of “mini-ceremonies” as requested;
* unlimited contact via email and phone;
* additional planning meeting(s) scheduled as needed;
* travel to and from your ceremony site;
* either a rehearsal or walk through done prior to the ceremony start time;
* the coordinating of your wedding party, and working alongside any wedding professionals including any sound technicians, wedding coordinator(s) and photographer(s) is also offered to ensure a smooth transition into the performing of the wedding ceremony;
* the performing of the wedding ceremony;
* a keepsake copy of your personalized ceremony as well as a personal momento from your officiant to commemorate your special day;
* the filing of all paperwork for the marriage license (a certified copy is available at an additional fee, based upon what the county you purchased your license in charges).
Q. Does your service also include the purchasing of the license?
A. No. This must be obtained by the couple themselves. For couples who need more information on this, I have links to the websites of county offices that explain and give directions on how to obtain a license. A marriage license is valid after the mandatory three day waiting period. I am unable to perform a ceremony until the three day waiting period has passed.
Q. I've heard that some officiants are given a "tip" (gratuity) for their services. Is this required?? What's this all about?
A. The rates that I have listed on my website do not include a gratuity or "tip". Many couples as well as the parents of the bride and groom offer a gratuity for my services just as one would for any service that you may receive, such as a haircut, valet parking, or out for a meal at a restaurant. This is always at the discrection of my couples and their families.
Q. What do my fiancee and I need to do to have you “save the date” of our ceremony?
A. First, please contact me via email (you can also visit the "Contact Tiffani" tab to fill out a form that is directly emailed to me, too!) or by telephone. Have the following information availble so that I may check my availability:
* date of celebration
* location & city where celebration will be held
* will the rehearsal be on the same day or on a different day?
* type of celebration desired (i.e. wedding or commitment ceremony)
A face-to-face intial consultation is not required, but helpful in determining if you, your fiancee and I are a good "match". I understand that sometimes there are time restraints that prohibit extensive planning. I will make accomodations as needed and on an individual couple basis. I will schedule and “save the date” for my couples after all parties have signed a contract for my services and a deposit of half of the fee is obtained. All inquiries and couples are helped on a first come, first serve basis.
Please note that I now accept PayPal, to make your financial planning of your ceremony easier!

Tiffani's son, Jonathan, dancing with family friend and bride, DeAnna at A Country Location (circa 2007)